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Freedom, gratitude, law of attraction, manifestation, mindset, Money, success, Uncategorized

How Gratitude is Linked to Your Bank Account (and other success!)

Do you ever find yourself saying something like,

“When I hit [fill the blank $/month], then I’ll feel fulfilled?”

Or, something like,

“When I lose that 5 kilos, then I’ll feel better about myself?”

Or,

“When I’m earning better, then I’ll feel grateful and blessed/happy?”

 

I’d like to suggest that you have it the wrong way around….

 

That is exactly where I was.  When I was in financial hardship I was miserable!  I was not grateful for anything I already had, just depressed, frustrated and in complete despair about everything I was lacking.  My energy was rock bottom and in that way it was completely blocking money or any success showing up in my life.  (Read more about the law of attraction in action here.)

We need to create an energy space in which the change we desire is compelled to show up.

So, if we desire more money to land in our bank account, we need to think first about how it would feel to have that money in our bank account! Feel the high of receiving it like we already have it. If we continue to pour out negativity, we will continue to attract more in… Because like attracts like.

I’m not sure I really believed in this stuff the day I decided to listen to my mentor when she suggested I should practice more gratitude.  But I was down for changing my personal energy.  It was sucking the life out of me.  So, even if you don’t believe in the law of attraction, wouldn’t it feel better to completely change your personal energy? Feel lighter, brighter, more positive and less anchored in the worries and the doubts?

Gratitude is the way to start. A feeling of appreciation or thanks. So simple, yet so powerful 💛💛💛

And did you know gratitude grows the more you use it? I am a walking example of that.  And the more gratitude you have, the more you open yourself up for abundance.  And that did totally happen to me.  Nothing changed in my business but me and it started with the practice of gratitude.

Every time my mind started on a negative thought pattern, I started to feel grateful, for whatever -. I even coined this, Gratitudeness 😊

According to the Laboratory of Neuro Imaging, “the average person has about 70,000 thoughts each day. Most of these thoughts are very similar and simply repeat over and over in our heads each day.” There’s one big problem with this — the vast majority of these thoughts are negative.

It’s not always a matter of simply telling our minds DON’T THINK THIS NEGATIVE THOUGHT NOW. Because guess what our minds do? They start to think about that negative thought (they just ignore the don’t part). As the famed psychotherapist Carl Jung said “What you resist persists.”

Flexing our Gratitude muscle works to stop negative thoughts in their track and replace them with something positive and moreover, a good feeling, rather than the bad ones that come with thinking negative thoughts.  When we feel low thoughts, our whole energy depletes and it limits our potential, when we feel good thoughts our energy rises and we open ourselves up to opportunity.

So here is an action to try… Next time you feel sadness, loneliness, fear, anger, bitterness or any negative emotion, try and and flip it to Gratitudeness.

I honestly believe this has been a big part in my success the last 18 months because like attracts like. Feel good do good. We are literally magnets with our personal energy fields. And more often than not, we are pointing the magnet in the wrong direction 😲

If you want to know the exact practice I used to practice gratitude every day, reach out to me in the box below and I’ll send it to you, free of charge!  Please write GRATITUDE in the comments

In Your High Vibes & Happiness,

CW x x

Freedom, law of attraction, manifestation, mindset, Money, success, Uncategorized

What is your deepest darkest confession?  The thing that you don’t feel like you can tell anyone about, but the thing that is holding you back in your life? 

At the beginning of January I committed to creating a video every day for 365 days to help others lift their vibration to manifest success.

You can see them at my YouTube Channel here.

I have had a lot of people reaching out to me since I began these videos.  It seems my suggestion that there is something deep down that holds us back is a true one for many, not just a reflection of my own experience.

When I finally began to work on myself, deeply last year, I discovered that my #1 value in life was freedom and everything in my life was the opposite – trapped and controlled because an experience I had 14 years ago had me living my life in a nice safe bubble.  I suffered with crippling anxiety and I learned that it was my brain, my mindset’s clever way to stop me straying out of that safe bubble.

I read a quote today that said, “you will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle” – Shannon L. Alder

And it really spoke to me.  I coached with my own incredible mentor 11 months before I shared my deepest, darkest confession.  I peeled back every single other onion layer before that point and I made big transitions forward.  However, it took 11 months for me to speak out what was deep inside and really putting my life on hold.

Do you have something that sits heavy in your heart?  Your own deepest darkest confession?  Not in the sense that it is something you have done, but in that you don’t feel like you can tell anyone about, or maybe even verbalise it properly, you just know it is holding you back in your life?

How would your life be different if you faced this issue?  Spoke it out?  Discovered it and its impact on you?  Or moreover the impact the world is waiting for you to make exactly because this thing happened to you?

Time is so valuable.  I mentioned that last year I discovered my #1 value was freedom and that everything about my life was the opposite.  Coaching helped me discover myself in a supported, gentle and confidential way.  In this way I discovered my past experiences had created beliefs that were limiting me.  In stripping those beliefs away, and walking forward as a completely different person, taking actions I’d never believed were possible for me before I now have freedom in all areas of my life that are important to me – time freedom to spend with my children, a schedule that is mine, not somebody else’s, more financial freedom, more fun and enjoyment in my life, and perhaps more important than anything else, freedom to serve.

The final piece of my self-discovery has been the connection to my purpose and my ability to live that purpose, that freedom and feel the release of almost everything that was holding me back.  This has completely changed my vibration, my ability to manifest and thus my success.  My past experience, the thing that once broke me is now a gift and the reason I am writing a book, the reason I finally got my coaching business off the ground and the reason I connected with an opportunity that is changing peoples’ lives.

What if your story, your deepest darkest confession, the thing that perhaps brings you despair, is the thing that will bring people hope?

Reach out to me if you are ready for your own journey of self-discovery to begin

In your high vibes & happiness,

CW

manifestation, mindset, success, Uncategorized

A thought (and tip) on limited beliefs!

You are the average of the five people you spend most time with ~ Jim Rohn

This means our community can make or break our success!

We have 70,000 thoughts buzzing around our mind every day and unfortunately, most of them are negative.  So who we hang around, what we listen and what influences our thoughts becomes significant.

  • What is your mental nutrition?
  • Who is lifting you up?
  • Who is inspiring you?
  • Who is pushing you forwards?
  • Who is supporting you?

Because all of us have limiting beliefs and they don’t need any help holding us back!

In fact, if you aren’t experiencing success in a particular area of your life right now I can almost guarantee a limiting belief is at play.

Last year began the process of interrogating my past experiences to understand the ones that had created my limiting beliefs around money, parenting and success.  Because they were all presenting as a crippling lack of belief in myself and this was BEFORE the experience that completely shut me down in fear.

You see, most of our limiting beliefs are created when we are children.  When we are between 2 & 6 years old our brains are like little sponges; we absorb everything and create our beliefs from what we observe innocently in our world.

And the thing is, we cannot change the experiences that happened in the past, we can only ever control what we do going forwards.  We can continue to live trapped by our limiting beliefs and our fears or we can make a decision to grow.

On my Facebook Page I posted today that my Manifestation Challenge is running again to help you choose empowering thoughts over negative ones and help change your focus.

Just think of it like programming – like your brain is just a big computer and you can download the new stuff you want on it, but you have to invest in the programming.

Otherwise every thought, will ping a big emotional charge like fear, which keeps you stuck.

And you know, I was stuck, really stuck 18 months ago.  And then suddenly out of nowhere an opportunity presented itself to move forward.

It was a business opportunity actually.

I couldn’t afford it

I didn’t believe I had it in me to achieve in it

But I couldn’t handle the idea that if I didn’t take it I was going to stay stuck!  That was the only reason I said yes to it!  That and I was kind of inspired by the idea of changing the world…

But the big message is that decision is directly responsible for where I am today because of the community it connected me to and the motivation and inspiration I surrounded myself with that encouraged me to believe in myself.

I upped my average

So, limiting beliefs, your mental nutrition, your community and your new programming.  I really recommend, even if it isn’t my free manifestation challenge, find one new way this week to start reprogramming your thoughts this week.

You can check out my last newsletter too to see some ideas you can try straight away!

In your happiness & high vibes!

CW x xx

Your Success Enabler

Money, success, Uncategorized

A little mindset shift that will catapult your success!!!!

I am going to teach you a little perspective shift that has helped me MASSIVELY!

Do you get that “icky” feeling when it comes to spending money?

Do you say no to spending money on your own growth?

I’ll give you an example. I’m in a position where I need to put some investment into my business.  It is making me feel “icky” because I don’t know whether it is going to pay off.  I don’t know whether it is going to pay off because deep down I am still not behind myself 100%  I still carry limiting beliefs about my success, but they are massively reduced compared to this time 18 months ago because of the work I have done on myself.

You see, our internal condition, holds us back. 

It affects us in numerous areas of our life where there is the opportunity to grow

  • The opportunity to start a new business
  • Investing in our wellness
  • Embracing a new opportunity.

I definitely felt exactly the same before I started my business!  However, at the same time we had other bills and I was finding the space on my credit card to pay them.

You know in the present day I don’t have to use a credit card because of my business.  It has pulled me out of the financial hole I was in and opened doors to so many opportunities.  My life is different because of it.  I am different because of it!  And only because I made the decision to invest in myself.

The thing that made me think about this was being in Specsavers today being told I need to wear glasses.  I was looking at the prices thinking “I could really do without this expense, but I need glasses and so, I’ll pay the money to get some.  The money was the same amount that I need to invest in my business and I didn’t get that same “icky feeling”.  What is the difference?

Our past experiences create baggage and garbage that blocks our future

And block our success.

If we don’t believe in ourselves to make something happen because of whatever reason we won’t invest cash.

If we don’t feel worthy of whatever that investment will bring us, we won’t invest the cash.

It might even be that we don’t believe in ourselves to be able to handle the kind of success that investment will create!  So we don’t invest the cash.

Think about it.  If I put my personal development course in front of you right now, or you were offered the chance to start your own business, or you were offered a way to get fit and healthy and whichever one of those things you chose cost a few hundred bucks.  What would stop you saying yes?

I am gonna guess… you are saying “I can’t afford it”.

OK, so now ask yourself, would you say yes if it was a water bill or a rates bill or school fees or a saving payment towards the annual family holiday?

Then honestly, ask yourself what is the difference.  It isn’t that you can’t afford it.  It is because you are prioritising other things over your own success.

And feeling “icky” is the body’s clever mechanism to make sure you continue doing that because the feeling is anchored in the memory of whatever caused your limiting belief in the first place.

So we come back to healing the internal condition for you to be able to grow.

And I promised to teach you the reframe that works for me and frees me from the limiting belief that prevents me GROWING!

It’s really simple.  I just think about the decision the future me would make.  I am in business, I want my business to be a success and so this is a need that needs to be satisfied.

I do the same thing when it comes to my personal development too now because I know that continuing to heal my internal condition is the only thing that will continue to free from the past experiences that held me back for too long.

Of course this requires having a strong vision of where you want to go.  What the future you looks like.

We work on vision in my free Manifestation Challenge.  That’s right, it’s absolutely free so you don’t have to spend anything to access it.  We start with setting your vision of your greatest life then I teach the 4 powerful keys you need to unlock your manifesting success.

Check it out here

OR, if you’re ready to dig deep into the mindset that is holding you back from success, register for my free Mindset Masterclass, happening tomorrow!

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In high vibes & happiness

CW x x x

 

success, Uncategorized

Are you ready for your life, your business and your bank account to ELEVATE?

Are you struggling to see where you are you going in your life/business, experiencing a lack of belief, or feeling like you are on the verge of giving up?

I was. And do you know what I found out? I was asking the universe for everything that was making me feel that way:

  • Financial worry
  • Stress
  • Hardship
  • Struggle
  •  Scarcity.

My mindset equaled my vibration which matched the low-level of success in my life.

Do you believe in Law of Attraction? Do you believe in the ability to manifest success in your life?

I do, and just recognising how my mindset asks how I carried myself and all the worry and fear was negatively affecting my ability to manifest was my first powerful step toward changing my experiences.

So congratulations, you just took a step closer to elevate your life, you business and your bank account!

Now let’s work on the important stuff:

  • Those ‘low-level’ thoughts
  • Your vibrational energy
  • Your lack of self belief anchored in the fears born out of previous experiences that are blocking you from receiving what you desired.

Terrifying?

Yes. I get you. When I started to do this it was a big change in tack.  And a scary one because I actually had to pay for some support.  I was out of my depth.  I had been focusing on the external stuff, the comparably easy stuff now it came down to it – the business strategies (that failed), the magic formulas from x,y,z successful person (that failed), the social media tips from the free downloads (that failed), rather than work on my internal condition.

And ultimately this was the only thing that was important and it was this that changed my life.

I made a choice between continuing to live trapped by fear or becoming fierce about my belief in myself.

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When I committed to the internal experience of fierce belief and did the work to feel differently, I finally saw my vision start to manifest.

I’d previously approached my journey to success as: “I need my business to succeed to earn the money I need to survive, so I can feel good about my life again”, rather than “How can I feel good about my life again to be an energetic match for the extraordinary life I want for myself?”

The emphasis must be placed on healing the internal condition, not strapping bandaids over everything else that is external to us, like our business or our relationship or our job.

We need to lock eyes with our past self. Just for a moment and recognize the times when we failed…  or when we saw our parents fail… or when we bowed under the pressure of success… or when what we wanted inadvertently took away our freedom… or those times we were judged, bullied, ridiculed…  Rejected.

It hurts to look back and I’m not asking you to dredge all that happened back up again. I feel your fear about that.  I feel your pain.  There was a time in my life when everything unravelled.  When I was broken to what I feared was beyond repair.  My loss of self-consumed me for what felt like forever.  And I went through it mostly alone because I didn’t think anyone could help me. I have finally spoken out about what happened in my Bio here.

I didn’t realise until last year how much what I experienced had trapped me in fear.

For 14 years I built a world that was a nice, safe bubble.  I developed an anxiety that prevented me wandering outside of that safe bubble.  And I made decisions from that place, thought from that place and acted from that place.

It doesn’t matter what experience creates your fears that lead to your lack of belief in yourself.  It doesn’t matter the size or the type of the fear; it doesn’t matter.

What matters is how you can use those experiences as your greatest power to GO FORWARD.

As your motivation to become a fierce pitbull of your thoughts and grateful throughout every inch of yourself for everything you already have.

You are alive, you are a survivor and a fighter and you are powerful!  You can journey towards your vision of better by taking simple actions that will begin to change your mindset and start to re-wire your brain!

I’m conscious that right now I know what you are thinking.  I know where my mindset was and what I was prepared to invest in terms of my time and money into myself.  Part of me felt like it was a waste of money and a lot of me felt guilty for spending it when my family had so many needs above my own! I guess I was beginning before I was necessarily fully ready because there was an opportunity to do so and I was stretching myself only as much as I could stand outside of my comfortable bubble.

I get it.  The confirmation that working on your inner mindset is the best and only way forward for you right now will only come through through action that gets you RESULTS:

– Belief in yourself

 

– Freedom from doubting yourself and your desires

– Action over hesitation!

Your life, your business and your bank account will all elevate as you finally believe that you totally deserve all of the abundance that you desire. As you believe you are capable of having it and are ready to unapologetically go for it.

Now is your chance to get everything you have ever wanted. By working on the one thing you have probably ignored the most… YOU!

Make a choice to continue living trapped by fear or become fierce about your belief in you.

I have developed a short course, From Fear to FIERCE that is going to change your perspective. It is going to change your focus. And it is going to help you start to let go of the limiting beliefs and fears that have held you back for too long, so you can go forward in the direction of your greatness.

You will become FIERCE in your belief you can have everything in your life that you desire, fiercely confident in your abilities and fiercely in love with your life.

From Fear to Fierce is 8 Practical Exercises to begin setting you free from the limiting beliefs that block you from living your most extraordinary life.

And just by reading this blog today you can get 75% off the listed price and  gift yourself freedom from your biggest limiting belief – the lack of belief in yourself! Belief blocked by fear born out of past experiences. I’ll help you to use those experiences as your greatest power to create future you want.

Become the person able to face your fears, by becoming fiercely in control of your thoughts and trusting your heart’s desire to go forward and step into the life that is waiting for you on the other side of yourself, by accessing From Fear to FIERCE NOW!

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Much Love

CW x x