Freedom, manifestation, success, Uncategorized

10 Things to Sacrifice TODAY for more HAPPINESS!

Recently I went live on my Facebook profile with 4 things you need to sacrifice to be happier in your life!  Check it out here!

I promised to share 6 more things you have to sacrifice to get happier NOW!

And here they are…

5. Give up HUSTLING!

Believe me, you think that by working every hour you are going to get more financial freedom, but it’s likely not true.  A really powerful exercise is to write a list of everything you are working hard for, which you feel you aren’t getting/don’t have already and then next to that list ask yourself honestly what you are not giving.  It’s likely that most of the work that you are working hard on isn’t the world-class work that will make the shifts you seek.  However, the world-class work challenges you, creates fear or puts you outside of your comfort zone.

Decide if you want the balance in your life that will bring you more happiness, which in turn will bring you more abundance and then commit to making some changes.

6.  Give up BLAMING!

Take this phrase, tattoo it to your brain and say every time you find yourself looking for someone to blame about what’s going wrong in your life…

Everything is happening around me, not to me, I can control how I respond!

Then look at what you can GIVE to improve your situation.

7.  Give up trying to PLEASE OTHERS

When you can trust that all your innate power is within you and be true to a life that fits you, you won’t need the approval of others.  It won’t matter anymore.  Not in a selfish way, but in a fulfilled way.  Your happiness shouldn’t be hinged on the love, appreciation or approval of others.

8.  Give up the SHOES THAT DON’T FIT

This is the first step to finding fulfilment and happiness from within you… Find out who you are in all your unique beauty.

9.  Give up the need to be RIGHT

Defending a point of view is exhausting and lowers our vibe.  Give up the need to be right to defend your peace of mind.

10. Give up CONTROL

There is little we can actually control in life, as I adhered to above, life is always happening around us.  Feeling like we have little control over our life makes us feel really unhappy.  This is just one area of a comprehensive scorecard I have to help you see what is making you feel unhappy in your life.

Access the scorecard in the first module of my free coaching course here!

 

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“Pain pushes you until vision pulls”…

What if I told you I could change your life by changing your focus?


According to quantum physics, what we focus on manifests as our reality, so by constantly focusing on the problem, we fuel more of the problems in our lives. And fuel negative emotions like frustration, failure, envy and a complete lack of belief in ourselves.

When you have clarity of intention, the universe conspires with you to make it happen

~ Fabienne Frederickson

Are you ready?

  • To achieve your IMPOSSIBLE?
  • To redefine your LIMITS?
  • To remove the counter intentions blocking your SUCCESS?
  • To rewire your brain for MENTAL WELLNESS & HAPPINESS?

“Mind over matter” is a real thing.  I’ve experienced it and I can help you to experience it as well, so that your positive, resilient mindset becomes your secret weapon for success.

Everything we are is energy. We are vibrational beings interacting in a vibrational universe. Everything we feel is energy. Anxiety, insecurity, fear, sadness are negative energies that are magnetic, and our shackles to them are a major block to our happiness.

I used to live a life overwhelmed by anxiety.

Looking back now to the way I felt day in day out, I’m not sure how I survived it. From the minute I opened my eyes in the morning I felt this nonsensical feeling of urgency and fear.  I wasn’t ready to feel the emotions I had locked away. I hadn’t agreed to that intention. It wasn’t on my terms.

But when I set that intention to change my life my energy changed in an instant.

I felt like the sun was rising on a new dawn.  Across 12 months I changed everything about my life… through Mindset Mastery.  I came back around to the me I always was, I’d just lost her in “life”. By rediscovering “me”, rising my vibration and redefining my beliefs, everything in my life transformed.

Everything starts within.

We all hold onto everything that has gone before without consciously knowing it, which creates silent counter intentions to what we say we want.  And so we fail to manifest it.  Our counter intentions are rooted in fear, doubt, even fear of the fear and limiting beliefs.

‘Flow’ is the opposite of this state.

‘Flow’ is where we have inner harmony with whatever we are doing, even if we are not doing/achieving/experiencing everything that we want to be.

If you are ready to to invest in you and come full circle and in doing so become unstoppable; elated because you’re finally free from your excuses and fear, sure of your path forward, I am ready to have a conversation with you. Intention is all you need right now and the rest will come. Just click this link and complete the form 💓>>https://wp.me/P9ixom-3

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How to Ensure Gut Instinct is the Right Instinct!

Ever get a “hunch” something is not right?

“Gut instinct” is real; it can be measured, mapped in the body and even analysed chemically!

Different emotional states cause different sensations inside our body and cause different physical reactions… For example, when we are angry, our heart rate speeds up and our face gets hot, when we are anxious, we feel a little sick and we breathe faster, when we are sad, our heart physically hurts.

What do you feel when you get a “hunch”?  Do you act on the feeling?  How do you know whether this intuitive decision is the right one? Have you made an intuitive decision that is the wrong one before?

Being connected our internal feelings is called Interoceptive Awareness and it truly is our internal guidance system – we can literally be guided by our heart.

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Our internal guidance system and how we connect to it affects our:

  • Self-awareness
  • Problem-solving
  • Perspective taking
  • Social understanding
  • Flexibility of thought
  • Emotional Recognition and regulation
  • And use of our Intuition.

So how do we listen to our gut and use it effectively?

Meet your sixth and seventh sense.

The “hunch” we feel of intuition, déjà vu, or that crazy feeling of a past life parallel. 

Conditioning makes us question these feelings, even distrust them. We believe it’s “just a coincidence”.  (Not surprising after 10+ years at school learning to look for cause and effect because there is always a theory or a precedent or a formula/rule.) 

But when we begin to dip our toes into the world of vibrational energy and Law of Attraction, our senses become an interface between the dense physical world and the non-physical world of pure consciousness. Our sixth sense utilizes our feeling body to inform us when our intuition is on or off target and then our seventh sense, our purest knowing, embodies in us the impenetrable trust of Flow.

Flow is the state of open wonderment, trust and immersion we experience when we are children, before we go to school and before we create beliefs or take on beliefs and conditioning that limits us and disconnects us from ourselves.

Flow is what I help my clients to discover, as we remove the upper limits that block us from it, and learn to become aware of the feelings we have and how we feel them without becoming them and use them to create the life we want.  Check out my coaching services here!

For extra tools/support, my From Fear to Fierce course helps you to shift the belief systems that are guiding your ultimate self belief and how you show up in life.

And if you struggle with “being busy” (we can’t hear our inner voice if it is drowned out by other noise), check out my crazy affordable short course, “5 Steps to Connect with your Inner Voice” to ditch busy and start receiving the messages from your higher self!

In your high vibes, health & happiness,

Clare! xxx

Freedom, Uncategorized, wellness

Netflix for Health?

What is the deal with Netflix?  Why do people love it so much?

Answer? Because it is the simplest & most easily understood way to get a personalised service.

So what has that got to do with health?

The biggest problem when it comes to taking action in our health is our human nature.

We’ll do what we need to for a while to get healthy, but we’ll easily slip back to bad habits. This is a big symptom of us existing in sympathetic overdrive like I describe here.  Our habitual neuron pathways are deeply conditioned. Which means that when our sympathetic overdrive state activates our reptilian brain, whose job it is to find pleasure and avoid pain, we will easily fall back into bad habits because they are safe.

It’s all about feelings.  It’s uncomfortable to develop good lifestyle and nutritional habits.  It’s confusing and overwhelming to pick from all the different choices.  It’s frustrating when we make the wrong choice and we work hard at it to have no noticeable results.

Our hectic, busy, risk-averse, comfortable, contemporary lifestyles have caused us to operate and function mainly out of our reptilian brain and thus we have been trapped in constant reptilian brain generated reaction.  Conscious eating, conscious living, conscious efforts in terms of our health requires the activation of our neo-cortex.  And thus, we must learn to by-pass the reptilian brain completely in order to THRIVE instead of SURVIVE.

Instead, people are working on hope, guesses and off the shelf ‘generalised’ diets, work outs and health programs. The scary thing is that advertising, media and even political propaganda is supporting this by targeting the reptilian response section of our brains.  Every experience we have in our life creates a belief that dictates our future action.  It’s these previous experiences that really causes us to fail. Human nature is to avoid making the same mistakes again. So if we’ve had a bad experience dieting, or it didn’t work, it’s very hard to overcome the instinct to avoid change again, or throw in the towel early when it gets hard or seems like it’s not working.

And that’s often the case, as one size doesn’t fit all.  80% of diets failing certainly backs up that fact; if you like numbers.  The industry of Weight Loss has become a cycle where people are trapped in a loop of stop-start diets over the course of their lifetime and this is not supporting the fight against the chronic diseases that are ending our lives prematurely.

It’s time to take our power back.

There is no off the shelf – one size fits all approach to our health. And that’s why 80% of people end up on yo-yo diets and sleep-walking into chronic disease.  But the good news is OUR HUMAN BODY IS INCREDIBLE!

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It has everything it needs within to keep us healthy, when we do what it needs and give it the right environment to thrive.

The thing is… every single person’s internal chemistry is as individual as a fingerprint. 

So we have to start by understanding it.

I heard a great analogy from Jim Rohn once that put this into perspective for me…

Think of your body as a vehicle. Now, imagine for a moment that you had worked hard and had been able to save enough money to buy the car of your dreams. Maybe it is a fine luxury car that costs $75,000. You love every aspect of it. It gets you where you want to go, and it gets you there in style! Now, after driving for a few hours, you know you will run out of fuel, so you turn to the owner’s manual and find it tells you that you need to use unleaded fuel. Would you then go fill up the car with diesel? What would happen if you did? It wouldn’t run right. It wasn’t designed for diesel. In reading the owner’s manual, you would also see a recommended grade of fuel in order for the car to run at its most efficient level. There will be an octane suggestion; it might be 89. Now, the car could probably run on 87 octane, but not as well as on 89. So you would put in 89 octane. You must fuel the vehicle properly.

And yet we are not taking this approach with our bodies. We are designed to run on good fuel. There are other fuels we can put into our bodies, but they won’t run as efficiently if we do.

We hear, “eat right & exercise” all the time as the answer to great health, but what is right for you?

Our bodies are naturally a powerhouse of wellness. Starting at the deepest place within, with our body’s life forces; microscopic energy factories called Mitochondria. When they do not work as well as they should our body gets out of equilibrium and is unable to fight off diseases, give us the energy we need to thrive or stop us from ageing prematurely.

It is the seemingly simple things that we do not pay much attention to that are throwing our bodies off its natural balance – bad sleep, bad diet, lack of exercise and the toxins flooding our lives. And we chuck away the symptoms we feel as a consequence, like excess fatigue, digestive issues or mood swings as par for the course in a busy, hectic life (the same lifestyle activating our reptilian brain..). And yet they are the key symptoms in just about every chronic disease you can imagine that accumulate over years and winds us up with heart disease, diabetes, auto-immune disease and other chronic diseases that we could have avoided.

Cancer initiation and progression has been linked to the oxidative stress response elicited by mitochondrial dysfunction.

We are sleep-walking are way to chronic disease.

Imagine if you were to get sick right now and realise there was something, multiple things you could have done to avoid it.

We’ve all been there.  We feel a lump or we get chest pains or that cough turns into something more sinister than “nagging”.  Chronic disease and cancers do not just “turn up” overnight.  The risk factors for them developing are accumulating over years – disorders in how our body manages sugar, abnormalities on our Blood Pressure or Cardiovascular condition; sometimes arrhythmias or fibrillation that we would not necessarily notice. Sleep is also a huge risk factor and imbalances regarding our energy intake or utilization.

So how do we keep an eye on all these things?

How do we stay finely tuned like the expensive car we just talked about in the analogy?

Where do we find the instructions about what fuel our body needs and the special care that will prevent an unexpected break down?

Netflix.

Well, not the Netflix that gives you your favourite shows, but a similar service for your health.  A subscription service that regularly calculates and elaborates your own personalized Health and Wellness Plan and helps you with Disease Risk Prevention.

This provides you with easy, continual steps towards becoming your best version of health and accountability to keep you focused and motivated.

While it might not be some “all in”, Bikini MIRACLE diet come EPIC workout that is going to transform your body in a matter of weeks!!!!!!!

It is the facilitation of a new way, where a little bit of the right change makes a big difference.  Where the first step creates momentum to take the next step, and so on.  Where the consistent, steady movement in the right direction makes the small, incremental investments in your wellness and longevity seem painless and creates the confidence and excitement to be truly self-motivated and driven toward your ultimate wellness success.

For more information about the subscription that is right for you to start making a difference in your health (from $1.99/day!), click here and answer a few quick questions!

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How Gratitude is Linked to Your Bank Account (and other success!)

Do you ever find yourself saying something like,

“When I hit [fill the blank $/month], then I’ll feel fulfilled?”

Or, something like,

“When I lose that 5 kilos, then I’ll feel better about myself?”

Or,

“When I’m earning better, then I’ll feel grateful and blessed/happy?”

 

I’d like to suggest that you have it the wrong way around….

 

That is exactly where I was.  When I was in financial hardship I was miserable!  I was not grateful for anything I already had, just depressed, frustrated and in complete despair about everything I was lacking.  My energy was rock bottom and in that way it was completely blocking money or any success showing up in my life.  (Read more about the law of attraction in action here.)

We need to create an energy space in which the change we desire is compelled to show up.

So, if we desire more money to land in our bank account, we need to think first about how it would feel to have that money in our bank account! Feel the high of receiving it like we already have it. If we continue to pour out negativity, we will continue to attract more in… Because like attracts like.

I’m not sure I really believed in this stuff the day I decided to listen to my mentor when she suggested I should practice more gratitude.  But I was down for changing my personal energy.  It was sucking the life out of me.  So, even if you don’t believe in the law of attraction, wouldn’t it feel better to completely change your personal energy? Feel lighter, brighter, more positive and less anchored in the worries and the doubts?

Gratitude is the way to start. A feeling of appreciation or thanks. So simple, yet so powerful 💛💛💛

And did you know gratitude grows the more you use it? I am a walking example of that.  And the more gratitude you have, the more you open yourself up for abundance.  And that did totally happen to me.  Nothing changed in my business but me and it started with the practice of gratitude.

Every time my mind started on a negative thought pattern, I started to feel grateful, for whatever -. I even coined this, Gratitudeness 😊

According to the Laboratory of Neuro Imaging, “the average person has about 70,000 thoughts each day. Most of these thoughts are very similar and simply repeat over and over in our heads each day.” There’s one big problem with this — the vast majority of these thoughts are negative.

It’s not always a matter of simply telling our minds DON’T THINK THIS NEGATIVE THOUGHT NOW. Because guess what our minds do? They start to think about that negative thought (they just ignore the don’t part). As the famed psychotherapist Carl Jung said “What you resist persists.”

Flexing our Gratitude muscle works to stop negative thoughts in their track and replace them with something positive and moreover, a good feeling, rather than the bad ones that come with thinking negative thoughts.  When we feel low thoughts, our whole energy depletes and it limits our potential, when we feel good thoughts our energy rises and we open ourselves up to opportunity.

So here is an action to try… Next time you feel sadness, loneliness, fear, anger, bitterness or any negative emotion, try and and flip it to Gratitudeness.

I honestly believe this has been a big part in my success the last 18 months because like attracts like. Feel good do good. We are literally magnets with our personal energy fields. And more often than not, we are pointing the magnet in the wrong direction 😲

If you want to know the exact practice I used to practice gratitude every day, reach out to me in the box below and I’ll send it to you, free of charge!  Please write GRATITUDE in the comments

In Your High Vibes & Happiness,

CW x x