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Until you spread your wings you will have no idea how far you can fly…

If you always focus on just getting by, you’ll only ever get by!

If you take a leap of faith, trust in yourself and your higher power, you’ll be surprised what happens next!

9 years ago I was sat in my house with the curtains closed staring at the fireplace. I’d been trying to pluck up the courage all day to go out, but my anxiety didn’t let me. I’d had a big argument with my brother a few days before and he’d slammed me in between the wall and his door breaking my toe. I was fighting a court battle with my ex-employers, we were short of money and it felt like everything was too hard.

There in that moment I made the decision to move to New Zealand.

I knew Craig would be on board because we’d talked about it for ages, but it had to happen now. I couldn’t see any other way forward.

My best friends pretended they were excited for me, but I could see they were devastated. Telling mum and dad was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done and they were heartbroken too

Now I know that move was the best thing I could have ever done, but as I walked through the airport gates into the Auckland arrivals terminal and listened to the Native Birdsong sing out through the speakers I wasn’t sure I’d made the right choice at all.

Those first few years were hard. I continued to fight my court battle across the miles, which I ultimately lost, but over time my anxiety was improving and I got back into full time work.

Then it hit me. What the fuck! That same feeling of something being massively out of alignment, like having a wonky disc in your back and trying to walk anyway. I felt the discomfort! And I think I felt it every day since, albeit got less, until last year when I took another leap of faith and did something else completely out the box.

This time the thing was more outside of my comfort zone than moving countries…
And it had a shed load more risks than benefits that I could see through the struggle we were still in. I applied for the Reality Show, Play to Win!!!

I put thousands of dollars of flights on a credit card on a gut feeling that the tiny chance of winning the show was worth the massive risks and sacrifices to my family. And I lost!

But thankfully, the result was that I changed so much and I learned so much from the experience that it was one of the best decisions I ever made. For none of the reasons I thought it would help me, but for all of the reasons I needed help, that I couldn’t see myself.

Are you seeing the pattern here…?

Life is on the other side of everything you fear…

And often our fears are to do with money. Or moreover the fear of losing it, not making it back if we invest in something and we don’t see how investment in ourselves will pay off. We feel more comfortable investing in marketing courses, more education and learning, but do those things really transform our struggle? Not in my experience…

So here we come up to the real ball breaker in the story…

In November last year, with Craig freshly unemployed, I committed to a coaching program that I had no vehicle to pay for, apart from my own success. This was my biggest leap of faith yet. And the faith was in me.

You see, in 2016, I’d launched my own location independent coaching business on the feeling that this was exactly what I was supposed to be doing in the world.

But it had failed.

My Network Marketing business was propping it up. I’d gradually began to work with beautiful clients, yes, and they had amazing successes, yes, but it wasn’t translating into the income I wanted and I was frustrated. And with Craig now out of work, I had two choices. Chase the dream of who I truly want to become or give the fuck up!

And so I took a chunk of money from Craig’s redundancy and I put a deposit down on a coaching programme that cost more money than we even owned.

And the decision paid off.

3 months on, Craig is chasing his dreams instead of going back to a job he hates and my business is funding it.

You see, the moment you take your focus off your struggle and get out of your head and into your heart where your truth flies high, the struggle you fear is less likely to eventuate…

How much of your life are you willing to commit to STRUGGLE because of more decisions that are guided by everything you FEAR?

A couple of weeks ago, I welcomed 3 new clients to my Coaching Programme, u_UNLEASHED that really compelled me to write this post.

They represent everything I believe about what is possible when you let go of fear long enough to see what you truly want and commit to doing whatever it takes to end the struggle for good. And they are already seeing a return on their investment.

But each of the 3 almost said no. They almost turned the coaching down for fear they wouldn’t be able to pay for it. And I’m so happy they turned their fear into the fire that will make their dreams realise!

Especially because each of the 3 wants to impact others. And income is a magnifier… It allows us to do more, be more, create more!

So…
If you’re ready to stop shrinking to your reality and start your journey of GROWTH, drop an application to this link to talk to me about your struggle and the life you want beyond it:

https://cwfullcircle.com/apply-for-your-u_unleashed-breakt…/

I genuinely am here for you. I understand where you are and what you fear because as you have read, I have lived through the not so great stuff. But I am also proof of how quickly you can turn things around with the right support and I’m creating a line of other entrepreneurs that are also proof that your dreams of more impact and income are possible with my support.

I’ve got you…

Will you take a leap of faith?

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How to Biohack your Emotional Responses

This morning I woke up feeling stressed and overwhelmed.

Then somebody I have coached in the past gave me a wake-up call!

He said, “Don’t bend to your circumstances.  Change them.”

Control is our Superpower.  I used to use control in the wrong way.  Trying to control my circumstances and rigidly control how I went about things (strategies and lists for days.)  This was part of my SURVIVAL MODE, not freedom from it, because I was so trapped by everything I feared.  Now I use control the right way.  I control how I show up, the decisions I make and the way I choose to decode my emotional responses programmed by emotional memories.

I now help others to increase their brain’s feelings of happiness through Biohacking these emotional memories, so that you feel good, begin to heal from past trauma and create a daily rhythm that makes you a superhuman charged magnet for a abundance.

I created a Free Resource within my Mynddojo to help you, but HOW do the simple tools in there do that?

Here is an example.

Yesterday I did an Emotional Trauma Healing Session with a Client where I helped her to consciously recognize the emotions at play, born out of her trauma, which are causing her so much pain and suffering in the present.  These feelings have caused her to suffer debilitating anxiety attacks for years.  However, bringing consciousness to an autonomic​ system like the nervous system lessens their impact.

This is the essence of Biohacking.  Bringing control to the things that we feel we have no control over.  Using science to live better and have more success.  Control is your Superpower…

In this case we are specifically biohacking emotional trauma and this is essential because we cannot suppress negative emotional experiences, like we try to do when we go through something horrific.  The limbic part of our brain becomes hyper-aroused to our emotional memories, which has unwanted effects like anxiety and depression and guides our motivation and behaviour.  It should be the other way around.  Our habits should be guiding our motivation and behaviour.  Our results do literally reflect our mindset.

The key to overcoming trauma is to calm the amygdala, part of the old limbic system of our brain, where our emotions are given meaning, remembered and attached to associations and responses to them, by activating the prefrontal cortex.  Most of our memories leave no trace in the brain, but trauma physically rewires it.  (And don’t stereotype Trauma here.  Experiences may seem subtle that have significant effects on the nervous system.  And from every experience, we take meaning.)

The prefrontal cortex combines two frontal lobes that are newer and larger areas at the front of the brain. They’re part of the cerebral cortex, which is a rational and more advanced brain system.  This is where thinking, reasoning, decision-making and planning happen.

The frontal lobes allow you to process and think about your emotions.  You can then manage these emotions and determine a logical response.  The frontal lobe response is not automatic.  It can be consciously controlled by you.

So, how do we do this?

– Setting Intention and Goals

– Practising gratitude

– Changing our focus

– Experiencing more joy

– Giving the brain new information or challenging it with questions that create new information, rather than replaying the stories that keep your trauma “on the tracks”

– Connecting and neutralising the emotions that are keeping you stuck

Thanks to Neuroplasticity (the brain’s ability to adapt and change with new experiences) we are literally rewiring our brain, physically with these new habits that activate a new emotional response that calms our amygdala and enables you to experience the vulnerability of everything you fear.

If this stuff FIRES YOU UP and you only want to master more of these Superhuman Secrets to your Success, I am holding a Free Masterclass on the 26th February and I would LOVE you to be there.  It’s simple to sign up… Just click here and I will mail you details to join me.

In your High Vibes, Health, Happiness and SUCCESS,

Clare x x x

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What if the only reason you believe you can’t is because you never have? 🤷‍♀️

It’s the 1st January 2020: The first day of a brand new month, of a brand new year and a brand new decade!

I’ve seen a lot of social media getting people to reflect on their past decade and envision what they want in the next one. Is it that easy to be clear?

It’s hard to see what you’ve never created and I’ve seen this create huge blocks in the belief of my clients that they can manifest their vision at all!

So what is a better way if you are feeling a little that way… Like you’re in a limbo land between one time paradigm and another – You are not the person you were in 2019 and you are not yet the woman you will be in 2020!

Here are the 7 things you can do right now to feel more certainty and less doubt

To Kickstart the MOTIVATION you need to take the action that will make you succeed in 2020!

Do these 7 things and your path forward will reveal itself:

✅ Commit to a powerful morning ritual every day that empowers you to connect with your wisdom within and power charge your mind and body for a successful day. Include visualisation, gratitude and planning to ensure a productive day, where you in control of your time.

For a copy of my Superhuman Morning Routine, complete the quick contact form below!

✅ Affirmations 👌
If you know what you are working towards and you know who you want to become and your doubts are stemming from the fact you haven’t created the success you want already, affirmations are a must! We create our reality with our thoughts!

✅ Mindset ❗❗❗
Another must! How can you develop indestructible self belief and get rid of, once and for all, your negative mindset patterns and unconscious self sabotage? Having goals for 2020 is one thing. Having the mindset that empowers motivation and confidence to take action is another!

For a free tool to help you improve your mindset this month, to start the year off with a BANG, complete the quick contact form below!

✅ Money Mindset 🎉🎉🎉
This is just another part of your Mindset that may be holding you back. (Probably more than you realise….)
If you have trouble parting with money to investing your growth
If you feel a deep lack of money in your life
If you say no to support for fear it will cost you money
Or if you worry about money and think about money in a negative way, your money mindset is holding you back. Are you ready to let go of this limiting mindset?

For a free tool to help you improve your money mindset this month, complete the quick contact form below!

✅ Vision🔥
We live out out in our life what we create in our mind and believe to be possible in our hearts! List out the 3 three things you want to achieve in 2020 in the short contact form below and let me know how confident you feel about achieving them!

✅ Reflection
Now in your own notebook, spend some time reflecting on your wins in the last 12 months. Really feel into how you felt when you achieved them. What else made you feel good, happy, fulfilled, energised, excited? 😍 Write your accomplishments and good times down.

✅ Why? 🌞
Finally, identify why you want to win in 2020. What will your success create in your life, your family’s life and the lives of the people you want to impact? Your why has to be big enough that on the darkest of days in 2020 you still get up and take the action that will lead to your success!

If you’d like some FREE support this month to set your vision and stay accountable to taking action (including the tools I mentioned above!), complete the short contact form below and I’ll send you a special FREE access code for my programme 20:20:20!

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“Pain pushes you until vision pulls”…

What if I told you I could change your life by changing your focus?


According to quantum physics, what we focus on manifests as our reality, so by constantly focusing on the problem, we fuel more of the problems in our lives. And fuel negative emotions like frustration, failure, envy and a complete lack of belief in ourselves.

When you have clarity of intention, the universe conspires with you to make it happen

~ Fabienne Frederickson

Are you ready?

  • To achieve your IMPOSSIBLE?
  • To redefine your LIMITS?
  • To remove the counter intentions blocking your SUCCESS?
  • To rewire your brain for MENTAL WELLNESS & HAPPINESS?

“Mind over matter” is a real thing.  I’ve experienced it and I can help you to experience it as well, so that your positive, resilient mindset becomes your secret weapon for success.

Everything we are is energy. We are vibrational beings interacting in a vibrational universe. Everything we feel is energy. Anxiety, insecurity, fear, sadness are negative energies that are magnetic, and our shackles to them are a major block to our happiness.

I used to live a life overwhelmed by anxiety.

Looking back now to the way I felt day in day out, I’m not sure how I survived it. From the minute I opened my eyes in the morning I felt this nonsensical feeling of urgency and fear.  I wasn’t ready to feel the emotions I had locked away. I hadn’t agreed to that intention. It wasn’t on my terms.

But when I set that intention to change my life my energy changed in an instant.

I felt like the sun was rising on a new dawn.  Across 12 months I changed everything about my life… through Mindset Mastery.  I came back around to the me I always was, I’d just lost her in “life”. By rediscovering “me”, rising my vibration and redefining my beliefs, everything in my life transformed.

Everything starts within.

We all hold onto everything that has gone before without consciously knowing it, which creates silent counter intentions to what we say we want.  And so we fail to manifest it.  Our counter intentions are rooted in fear, doubt, even fear of the fear and limiting beliefs.

‘Flow’ is the opposite of this state.

‘Flow’ is where we have inner harmony with whatever we are doing, even if we are not doing/achieving/experiencing everything that we want to be.

If you are ready to to invest in you and come full circle and in doing so become unstoppable; elated because you’re finally free from your excuses and fear, sure of your path forward, I am ready to have a conversation with you. Intention is all you need right now and the rest will come. Just click this link and complete the form 💓>>https://wp.me/P9ixom-3

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My Remedy for Anxious Feelings

Now that I am not drowning in anxious feelings every day and have the space in my mind to approach anxiety more rationally, I am able to implement a really cool tool for making anxious feelings go away…

(If you are drowning in anxious feelings, i.e. feeling anxiety every day, this tool likely won’t work for you, but click here for something that will)

Often when we feel anxious there is something completely different that we are feeling underneath, we just haven’t given ourselves the time to feel that original emotion and process it.  We process emotions by experiencing them and choosing whether they require more action to resolve them.  However, how we live today is too fast paced for this sort of consideration!  Everybody is in a rush and busy.

So this emotion instead builds up and will be joined by other repressed emotions until all of a sudden you’re bubbling inside with this emotional boil up that makes you feel like you are going to throw it all up.  This frenetic emotion puts your body into sympathetic overdrive (fight or flight) – it’s on edge waiting to respond to whatever’s got you so on edge!  The blood rushes from your gut to your limbs and your digestion goes to shit, your mind can’t focus and your focus goes into lock down while your whole being commits to survive.  And at this point we often keep going because we still don’t stop and take action to feel the emotions we have repressed (or we numb them temporarily with alcohol, drugs or even sex) and this is where mild anxious feelings downspin into chronic anxiety disorder.

So here is a really simple action you can take.

Ask yourself, what am I really feeling?  And list the things out:

  • fear
  • out of control
  • love
  • overwhelm

The list can be as long or as short as you need.

Now interrogate the reasons for the feelings you have:

  • Too much work on
  • Some worry over something real
  • Uncertainty regarding a situation
  • Fear of loss, rejection, failure, success!

Now we are getting somewhere!  We can work with this.  We can take action.

  • We can spend some time thinking about what we are actually working towards and identify the priority actions to get us there fastest
  • We can figure out how to resolve our worry or make a decision whether it is worth our energy to worry at all (if it isn’t that thing can take a walk)
  • We can utilise gratitude so uncertainty (or any other negative emotion) is replaced
  • We can identify the beliefs driving the fear and whether they actually serve us.  We can always create new beliefs that work better for us.

Ultimately, personal development, goal setting, action planning and inner work will always be powerful in overcoming anxious feelings because they give us the control back.  We can’t get to where we want to go in the passenger seat of the car.  We have to take the steering wheel and drive!

Have you ever been a passenger in a car where the driver is scaring the life out of you?  That’s what is happening in your mind!  Negative thoughts and negative feelings buzzing around are like a white knuckle rollercoaster for your brain and it does what it knows best instinctively – it steers you away from pain – it alerts your nervous system that the shit is about to go down, so prepare to fight or run!  But when we take control of our thoughts and put action into place that restores order our nervous system can’t help but calm.

Breathing will support this process.  Contact me for a really simple anxiety breathing technique I learned that beats anxious feelings every time!  (Please just specify in the comments that it’s the breathing exercise you are seeking.)

Hope this helps!

Much love if you are feeling anxious.  It is an awful thing to battle, but I can help you overcome the battle for good. Click here to learn more