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Hello, My name is Clare Williamson and I’m a Mitochondriac

Our body’s life forces, microscopic energy factories called Mitochondria, are under attack.  These are the Superheroes of our Wellness and they are under attack from bad sleep, bad diet, lack of exercise and the toxins flooding our lives.

This causes mitochondrial dysfunction and is a characteristic of ageing and all chronic diseases.  For example, loss of function in our mitochondria can result in the excess fatigue and other symptoms in just about every chronic disease you can imagine. I became a veritable ‘mitochondriac’ when I realised the importance of these superheroes on my health!

Here is a list of 7 ways that your Mitochondria play a part in your health, (and why you should become a Mitochondria too!)

– Heart Health

Your heart muscle cells contain far more mitochondria than any other organ in your body!  About 5,000 mitochondria per cell that need to be working efficiently to to keep the heart pumping 24/7 over a lifetime. By comparison, the tissue of the biceps muscle has about 200 mitochondria per cell.

– Nutrition

You’ll hate me for saying this (although it won’t come as a shock)… the typical nutrient-poor western diet filled with sugar and processed, fried, and hydrogenated oils is one of the BIG enemies to our Mitochondrial Superheroes. Bruce Ames, Ph.D., a respected molecular biologist and ageing expert at the University of California, regards the common nutrient deficiencies generated by the American diet as a profound cause of mitochondrial decay and accelerated ageing and disease.

There are countless shakes and diet plans on the market today that claim to be the answer to weight loss and better health, but it can be overwhelming to choose the solution that is going to work for you.  And I believe the answer lies in real food and that your body has all the answers you need.

Everybody’s body is unique in how it responds to certain foods and what it is lacking.  Companies out there certainly have great solutions. There are real green tea (as opposed to teabag-tea) and coffee (rich in polyphenols) MLMS, shakes like Isagenix and Herbalife and intermittent fasting techniques, as well as products to experience therapeutic ketones and ketosis diets.  These are great “mito boosters”!  But what if you could eat real, whole food that is tailored to your chemical makeup?  Click here to see exactly how

 – Physical Activity

Many types of exercise are mitochondria-healthy. Walking is great. Weight training is great. Yet, the best type of exercise for your mitochondria is high-intensity interval training.  This is where you do something at a high intensity for a short amount of time , take a break and then repeat.  This has the amazing effect of burning fat even after you have finished exercising!  And it is GREAT for your Mitochondria.  It’s like revving up the little engines of those powerhouses so that they work at their best potential!  What you need to see though, is how the exercise you are doing affects your heart rate.  If your heart rate isn’t up sufficiently, it isn’t high intensity!  There will also be other exercise that is suited to your lifestyle and your goals.  The first step is understand your DNA.

– Stress Reduction

Stress is bad for our Mitochondrial Superheroes, so get your stress under control. I know that is easier said than done, but believe me, I have a lot of experience in this area!  A great place to start is to understand your triggers of stress.  It might not be obvious and it might be a surprise that what may feel like a little stress on the outside is causing a whole heap of damage in the inside!  Tracking your mood and how you are responding to daily events is key, and if you’re open, I can then help you relieve the stress you are feeling with coaching,  aromatherapy, supplements (see below), and more.

– Sleep

Did you know you have a magic sleep number?  We hear we should sleep 6-8 hours a night, right?  Not true.  Each of us has an ideal   There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Many factors (like age, our body’s base or innate need for sleep, age, sleep quality, pregnancy, and sleep debt) play a role in establishing our particular “magic number.”  Plus, many things contribute to whether our sleep is quality sleep.  We can sleep for 10 hours, but it is not necessarily of quality enough to support our mitochondria.  The first thing to do is identify the quality of our sleep and understand our sleep trends, so we can see what makes us sleep well and what makes us sleep badly.

– Toxic Reduction

We encounter toxins daily and the organs that help to filter toxins are overloaded. It is really important to start reducing the toxins we expose ourselves to by eating clean and removing chemicals from our daily routines, but there is one damaging threat to our mitochondrial health that you can’t see and it”s everywhere.  Read more here!

– Supplementation

Nutritional supplements can make a big difference in our mitochondrial health, but not all supplements are made equally and many are synthetic versions of the nutrients we need, which the body cannot process and so, are waste of money.  A multivitamin is great, but I’m learning MORE is not necessarily BETTER! Every micro-nutrient has a level at which it’s useful and a level at which you get too much. And one size does not fit all, so what you need will be different to the next person…The particular supplements you need should be tailored to your body’s particular needs.  For how, click here

Hope that was helpful.  For more info reach out to me!

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How to Restore Balance in your body and Activate your Incredible Healing System

Dr Mark Hyman, Medical Director at Cleveland Clinic’s Centre for Functional Medicine, Founder of the Ultra Wellness Centre and 10 time #1 New York Times  Best Selling Author believes we all deserve a life of VITALITY.

Does this word describe you?  How do you feel day to day?

Vitality…. Energy & Strength

Are you living a life of vitality?  Or are you lethargic, moody, tired and needing to lose a few pounds?

If the latter, there might be a good reason.  Our body has a precise operating system.  There are 37 billion billion chemical reactions happening in our body at one time.  And yet, people are working on hope, guesses and off the shelf generalised diets, workouts and health programmes to stay well.

One size does not fit all.

Just like a car, we all need to use a fuel that we are made for.  If we fill up with diesel when our car runs on unleaded, it breaks down.  Even if we use the wrong octane, it affects how the car runs.

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Dr Hyman believes that we all have the power to improve our health by following simple principles that optimise our biology.  Effectively, nutrition and exercise that is personalised to our unique needs.

So the question is, what nutrition and exercise?

This is where Dr Hyman advises finding out where the body is out of balance in order to have a roadmap to rebalance.

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He is clear that DIET is the #1 place to start because food is linked to all the key things that put our body out of balance in the first place:

  • Insulin resistance
  • Food sensitivity
  • Inflammation
  • Toxic load

He suggests that a mostly plant-based diet with good fats, meat and fish in moderation is a good place to start, but we do need to understand in what proportions our macronutrients will serve us best; based on our genetic metabolism.

We also need to know what to supplement.

Our bodies are made to naturally be able to get what they need from our food and the environment, but soils are depleted and plants are bred for yield and resistance nowadays rather than optimal nutrition, so we don’t actually get what we need from our fruit and veg anymore, compared to years ago.

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Dr Hyman compared a wild dandelion to farmed spinach and suggested the dandelion would do more for us in terms of nutrition!  But we aren’t grazing on dandelions for dinner, or eating other wild food and wild fish that has what we need to thrive (with vitality)…

We don’t get enough sun.  We spend our time indoors or smother ourselves with sunscreen.  We don’t sleep enough.  We are bombarded with environmental toxins.  We are chronically stressed.

So basically, most people need some sort of supplementation, and different needs will again depend on a person’s genome, lifestyle and environment.

Exercise

Exercise is positive to weight management, our brain health, anti-aging, but also our emotional state.

Depression is not a prozac deficiency.

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There is a reason we feel low…

It might be:

  • Insulin resistance
  • Folate deficiency
  • Toxic metal overload
  • Gut issues.

Vigorous exercise has been shown to be as effective as anti-depressants. People who walk have been shown to have less Alzheimers.

One reason is that exercise creates BDNF in the brain, which is like Miracle Grow.  It is proven to improve mitochondria in the brain.  Generally, the best way to generate it is through HIIT workouts, but we can find out the exercise type that most serves us through the analysis of our genes.

Conclusion

Traditional medicine would take symptoms like lethargy, mood, fatigue and weight gain and find a reason for them.  They would give them one label.

Maybe you go into the doctor with lethargy, but you’ve also got lights in your eyes and headaches.  Maybe the doctor would say you have Migraines.

But what your body really has is an imbalance.  Maybe your gut bacteria is out of balance because you’re eating foods that your body can’t digest and you have food sensitivities and deficiencies.  Our bodies and those 37 billion billion chemical reactions are too complex to believe one label can provide a permenent fix.

There used to be only 12,000 official diseases in the medical books.  Now there are 155,000, but are people better off?  Is there more vitality in the world?

Just because a disease has a label doesn’t mean it only has one treatment, but doctors and Pharma are not willing to pay for system trials.

So what is our alternative?

The proactive will visit multiple practitioners to avoid the traditional route of a medical label and medication:

  • A Nutritionist for a diet plan to follow
  • A Personal Trainer to get exercises
  • A Naturopath to get a herbal tincture for better sleep

These remedies might work in combination, but at what price?  Most people can’t afford such a holistic approach, so they either do nothing or they take the medication, which takes away the symptoms that are actually red flags of a body that is out of balance and could be at serious risk of chronic disease down the line.

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What if nutrition, exercise, lifestyle changes and supplements (where necessary) can be used together, along with a roadmap personalised to the individual, to get the body back to its natural balance so that it’s own incredible healing system is activated?

If you would be interested in this kind of approach to your wellness; to your vitality, click here to answer a few short questions!

 

 

 

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How to Ensure Gut Instinct is the Right Instinct!

Ever get a “hunch” something is not right?

“Gut instinct” is real; it can be measured, mapped in the body and even analysed chemically!

Different emotional states cause different sensations inside our body and cause different physical reactions… For example, when we are angry, our heart rate speeds up and our face gets hot, when we are anxious, we feel a little sick and we breathe faster, when we are sad, our heart physically hurts.

What do you feel when you get a “hunch”?  Do you act on the feeling?  How do you know whether this intuitive decision is the right one? Have you made an intuitive decision that is the wrong one before?

Being connected our internal feelings is called Interoceptive Awareness and it truly is our internal guidance system – we can literally be guided by our heart.

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Our internal guidance system and how we connect to it affects our:

  • Self-awareness
  • Problem-solving
  • Perspective taking
  • Social understanding
  • Flexibility of thought
  • Emotional Recognition and regulation
  • And use of our Intuition.

So how do we listen to our gut and use it effectively?

Meet your sixth and seventh sense.

The “hunch” we feel of intuition, déjà vu, or that crazy feeling of a past life parallel. 

Conditioning makes us question these feelings, even distrust them. We believe it’s “just a coincidence”.  (Not surprising after 10+ years at school learning to look for cause and effect because there is always a theory or a precedent or a formula/rule.) 

But when we begin to dip our toes into the world of vibrational energy and Law of Attraction, our senses become an interface between the dense physical world and the non-physical world of pure consciousness. Our sixth sense utilizes our feeling body to inform us when our intuition is on or off target and then our seventh sense, our purest knowing, embodies in us the impenetrable trust of Flow.

Flow is the state of open wonderment, trust and immersion we experience when we are children, before we go to school and before we create beliefs or take on beliefs and conditioning that limits us and disconnects us from ourselves.

Flow is what I help my clients to discover, as we remove the upper limits that block us from it, and learn to become aware of the feelings we have and how we feel them without becoming them and use them to create the life we want.  Check out my coaching services here!

For extra tools/support, my From Fear to Fierce course helps you to shift the belief systems that are guiding your ultimate self belief and how you show up in life.

And if you struggle with “being busy” (we can’t hear our inner voice if it is drowned out by other noise), check out my crazy affordable short course, “5 Steps to Connect with your Inner Voice” to ditch busy and start receiving the messages from your higher self!

In your high vibes, health & happiness,

Clare! xxx

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Secrets from the World’s Top 5 Wellness Retreats

I recently led a 5 Day Self-Love Challenge in my private Facebook Group.

I felt that between my booming business, my energetic children and their social schedules, and my intensive Muay Thai training, my Self Care was lacking a bit!

Life gets like that sometimes, right?

Maintenance (or even achievement in the first place) of peace and balance is tricky and so the things that make us feel good and relaxed, that make us slow down, that make us exhale, that help us clear out our negative energy and revitalise get sacrificed.  We eat on the run, healthy diet choices slip down the priority list and we find ourselves indulging in a glass of wine, rather than a meditation to relax!

This is where luxury Wellness Retreats are cashing in.  They offer us the chance to take charge of our health with imposed self care, dedicated support and the promise of transformed health and connection to inner feelings and a new perspective.

So what can we learn from the world’s top wellness retreats?

I did some research on the leading Wellness Retreats across the world and the types of programmes you can enjoy by booking in.  Read on to discover:

  • The Healthy Ageing Women Retreat in Spain
  • The BodyScience Retreat in St Lucia
  • The Shanti Sleep Retreat in Mauritius
  • The LeFay Detoxification Retreat in Italy
  • And the Ananda Yoga and Meditation Retreat in the Himalayas

Have you ever been on a Retreat?

(Keep reading for 8 Alternatives to a Retreat for improved wellness….)

My sister-in-law just came back from a weekend one right here in New Zealand and she described feeling a million dollars at the end of the weekend.  She connected with like-minded women, she released unprocessed emotion and ate healthily and existed in peace across a weekend of what sounds like pure bliss.

So why aren’t we replicating this “bliss” in our daily lives?

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The reality is that modern day life is fast pace, high stress, highly toxic and monumentally processed.

In consequence, the progression and severity of “lifestyle” diseases is set to continue at an alarming rate. Figures for diabetes, cancers, cardiovascular diseases and more are SOARING and 80% of healthcare spending across the world is acute to take care of us once we have fallen ill.  It is our ambulance at the bottom of the cliff, so to speak.

And yet, only 10% of our wellness across our lifetime can be attributed to the HEALTHCARE we get.

Think about that for a minute.  Everywhere you look there are hospitals, doctors surgeries, people on waiting lists, people in treatment and for the majority the primary focus of their own healthcare is to seek out the advice of the medical profession when acute symptoms arise.

But across the span of our life only 10% of this acute care can be attributed to us being alive and well?

Basically, yes.  It is our genetics (30%) and our behaviour and environment, including nutrition (60%) that plays a bigger part in the outcomes we get.  Our genetics are a set piece, of course, but how we affect our genes with nutrition and our lifestyle can be attributed a whopping 60% to the wellness we experience across the span of our lives.

With that in mind, is a 5-7 day retreat enough to pick up the slack of this monumental responsibility our nutrition and lifestyle plays in keeping us well?

Do we learn enough, recover enough and change our habits enough in 5-7 days to make the investment in our health through a retreat worth it?

What value do you place on your health? 

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At the Ananda Retreat in the Himalayas you’ll pay an average US$4000 per person to rejuvenate the mind and body across 5 days; increasing clarity, relieving stress and anxiety, and potentially strengthening your immune system.

As you relax in the beautiful setting, your heart rate will slow down, your blood pressure will lower and the focus on breath will flood your system with oxygen.  It is these vital signs that are the first things a doctor checks when we wind up in hospital unwell because they give such a great indication of our body’s state, and combined together can give a picture of the threat to our health.

Do we notice these silent whispers as we go about our busy daily lives?

Our bodies have their own natural balance that is individual to each of us (your blood pressure and heart rate won’t be the same as the person next to you and we all have varying levels of insulin receptivity.)  It is these vital signs that change as we respond to stress, lack of sleep, bad diet, and lack of exercise.

When in optimal balance (maybe the imagined state of the “om” as we sit in focused meditation?) our bodies can fight off illness naturally.  It’s getting out of balance that can lead to serious consequences, including disease and a shorter lifespan. And this is a process that happens over time, not overnight.  Our lifestyle and attitude has a lot to do with this slip of balance.

To go deeper… our Mitochondria, the powerhouses of our bodies, are able to function optimally when we are in balance.  Mitochondria are part of the energy production work of our cells — our muscle cells, our brain cells — everything needs energy to function optimally, so even a minor impairment of mitochondrial function can have dramatic systemic ramifications.

The energy originally comes from the food that we eat: carbohydrates, fat, and protein. Inside our stomach and intestines, enzymes break down our food into small molecules like glucose and pass them to the cells around our bodies. Inside our cells, these molecules pass into our Mitochondria where they extract energy from the molecules so that our cells can use it.

This is done by burning the molecules; reacting them with oxygen. About 95 percent of the oxygen that we breathe goes to our Mitochondria, and when we burn the molecules with oxygen, the energy that is released is trapped in a currency that cells can use (for example, to contract a muscle) and this energy currency is called ATP (adenosine triphosphate).

Mitochondria are essential for keeping cells alive. If we deprive the brain or heart of oxygen, like in a stroke or a heart attack, a major cause of damage is that oxygen is no longer going to the Mitochondria. When there’s a lack of oxygen in Mitochondria, they stop working, and the cells die. A growing body of research is implicating mitochondrial dysfunction as a root cause in a wide spectrum of metabolic, lifestyle and degenerative diseases including: Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, Autism, Cancer, Diabetes, Alzheimer’s, Fibromyalgia and potentially many more.  These Mitochondria are essential to our human survival at the most basic level, but they are seriously suffering in our modern environment.

So, as our vital signs slip – our oxygen sats drop, for example – our risk factors for chronic diseases increase and accrue.

71% of the diseases that are killing us annually are within our scope of “control” to avoid.  Cardiovascular disease is at the top of this list.  The heart has high energy demands and 35% of the volume of cardiac muscles cells is taken up by mitochondria.

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At the Lefay Resort & SPA, Lago di Garda, Italy, you can detox your heart out for US$3000… 

 

It’s true, our ancient Mitochondria simply cannot cope with the amount of environmental toxins our bodies face off against on a daily basis – from the food we eat,  the medicines we take, the air we breathe, and the chemicals we apply on our body. The lack of quality nutrients in the modern processed diet also challenges our Mitochondria, reducing their function and increasing Mitochondrial damage.

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Unhealthy lifestyle habits, bad diet and ‘toxic load’ show up as raised blood pressure, imbalanced blood sugar and weight gain.  We don’t seem to have the time to notice these clues as we are rushing through life, but is a 5 day Detoxification Retreat enough to cleanse your body of all that challenges it?

One of the best ways to improve Mitochondrial health is through sustained dietary changes.  On a positive note you’ll get a nutritional consultation and prescription of special diet as part of your stay at LeFay.

Nutrition is the foundation and basis of good health.

The appropriate diet for you can assist in the prevention of many common 21st century chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, neurodegenerative diseases, and cancer.  We essentially pass what we eat to our Mitochondria, so they can make ATP. Having too many nutrients—too much fat, too many carbohydrates or protein coming in—causes extensive damage to the cell and the Mitochondria itself.

What’s for sure though is that the more we know about our body, the more empowered we are to ACT.

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Sleep is another really important factor for health, and in 2013 (the last year measured by Gallup), the average American slept 6.8 hours a night—with 40 percent banking less than six hours.  New research reveals that children who fall short by just one hour per night have a higher risk of developing Type 2 diabetes!

To understand how much is enough sleep to allow our bodies to rejuvenate, refresh and function at our best, watch this video.  Sleep influences how we think, eat, concentrate and it affects our mood, hormones and immune system.  Getting adequate sleep limits unhealthy food cravings, improves low mood and fatigue, and helps us to avoid chronic diseases!

So how do we discover what nutrition is right for us?

Image result for BodyScience at BodyHoliday (St Lucia)BodyScience at BodyHoliday, (St Lucia) offers DNA testing, comprehensive body analysis and a tailor-made wellness plan using your unique genetic information.

I am a MASSIVE fan of this type of Personalised Wellness.  For me, the discovery of my ideal macronutrient composition and exercise ratio (between strength and endurance) has been life-changing.  My physique has completely changed and I have reversed auto-immune disease. I am also no longer intolerant to certain foods and at the best weight and health of my life!  I’m also confident I’m supplementing what I need to at the right doses and nothing over and above, or lacking.  My energy has been significantly boosted, my body is able to work at its optimum and even my mind feels healthier.

BodyScience at BodyHoliday will set you back US$6000 for a 5 day trip.  Find out how I maintain the same outcomes for just US$3/day here.

Image result for Healthy Ageing Women at SHA Wellness Clinic (Spain)Finally, we have the Healthy Ageing Women Retreat at the SHA Wellness Clinic in Spain. This retreat will set you back US$10k and promises to take away your fear of ageing, as well as provide support to adjust with the changes in your body to preserve youthfulness and vitality. 

But, what makes us age?

In a study of more than 2,000 women, those who had the lowest vitamin D levels showed the greatest signs of biological ageing.

The most reliable measures of a person’s age are telomeres; the lengths of the genetic material that cap the free ends of DNA in a cell.  With age, the telomeres shorten and the DNA becomes more unstable until eventually the cell dies.  The study found that those with the highest vitamin levels had significantly longer telomeres – equivalent to 5 years of normal ageing.

Vitamin D has also been shown to have a positive effect on age-related diseases, like heart disease and cancer.

So what else can extend your life? Exercise has been proven to lengthen telomeres (so I should be alright!) and some cells have the ability to reverse telomere shortening by expressing telomerase.  Telomerase is an enzyme that extends the telomeres of chromosomes. Meditation has been shown to increase telomerase.

So what is it going to be?  An ambulance at the bottom of the cliff to take you to your much needed/deserved wellness retreat or some much needed, really simple lifestyle changes personalised to you?

Here are a few facts to help you make your decision…

  • Doctors don’t have time for us
  • Chronic diseases that we can control are killing us
  • Guessing what diet or exercise plan is right for us costs time, money and a lot of frustration
  • Our bodies metabolise differently depending on our genotype
  • Understanding our genetic blueprint can help us identify how our body will respond to different diets – whether protein will increase muscle tone, whether low carb will affect hormones or blood sugar negatively, for example
  • If we eat to our genetic metabolism we shouldn’t need to diet and struggle with willpower/hunger.  We can target food choices better, improve our eating habits, eat in the right portions and stick consistently to a habit that is going to serve us for a lifetime
  • Getting your diet right can help your body get back into a natural state of balance, improve your immune system (80% of the immune system is in our gut) and avoid chronic disease
  • A few tweaks in mindset can help you give yourself the self care you deserve and time management skills that serve your stress levels and anxiety.

8 Alternatives to a Wellness Retreat

  • Unprocess your diet
    • Go back to wholefoods and if you have to eat processed food, stick to foods with less than 5 ingredients that your grandma would recognize!  This will help prevent the need for detox.
  • Go chemical free
    • Use essential oils to replace chemical cleaners, perfumes and skincare over things our body doesn’t know how to process.  This will support mitochondrial health!  (Don’t forget EMFs)
  • Consider this
    • Our genes naturally have spelling mistakes that predispose us to certain health problems, but our lifestyle and environmental factors pull the trigger.  We can literally avoid activating faulty genes.  It’s called Epigenetics.
  • Hydration
    • Get at least 8 glasses of water a day.  Consider downloading an app that can remind you when to drink and how much.
  • Breathing
    • Many people do not breathe very well, especially people who have suffered chronic stress.  This can have negative health effects.  Go deeper at this blog…
  • Investigate Intermittent fasting
    • Eat food in a 12 hour window – it’s good for our brain and body!
  • Eat lots of colours for phytonutrients
    • Eat at least 4 portions of vegetables a day and make sure they are colourful
  • Consider tracking your blood sugar
    • How our body responds to sugar is significantly important to our long-term health. Blood Sugar levels are integral to weight loss and a factor in over 100 diseases!  It’s important to note the distinction that blood sugar problems are the symptom of T2 diabetes, not the cause.  The cause is insulin resistance that builds over years.
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My Remedy for Anxious Feelings

Now that I am not drowning in anxious feelings every day and have the space in my mind to approach anxiety more rationally, I am able to implement a really cool tool for making anxious feelings go away…

(If you are drowning in anxious feelings, i.e. feeling anxiety every day, this tool likely won’t work for you, but click here for something that will)

Often when we feel anxious there is something completely different that we are feeling underneath, we just haven’t given ourselves the time to feel that original emotion and process it.  We process emotions by experiencing them and choosing whether they require more action to resolve them.  However, how we live today is too fast paced for this sort of consideration!  Everybody is in a rush and busy.

So this emotion instead builds up and will be joined by other repressed emotions until all of a sudden you’re bubbling inside with this emotional boil up that makes you feel like you are going to throw it all up.  This frenetic emotion puts your body into sympathetic overdrive (fight or flight) – it’s on edge waiting to respond to whatever’s got you so on edge!  The blood rushes from your gut to your limbs and your digestion goes to shit, your mind can’t focus and your focus goes into lock down while your whole being commits to survive.  And at this point we often keep going because we still don’t stop and take action to feel the emotions we have repressed (or we numb them temporarily with alcohol, drugs or even sex) and this is where mild anxious feelings downspin into chronic anxiety disorder.

So here is a really simple action you can take.

Ask yourself, what am I really feeling?  And list the things out:

  • fear
  • out of control
  • love
  • overwhelm

The list can be as long or as short as you need.

Now interrogate the reasons for the feelings you have:

  • Too much work on
  • Some worry over something real
  • Uncertainty regarding a situation
  • Fear of loss, rejection, failure, success!

Now we are getting somewhere!  We can work with this.  We can take action.

  • We can spend some time thinking about what we are actually working towards and identify the priority actions to get us there fastest
  • We can figure out how to resolve our worry or make a decision whether it is worth our energy to worry at all (if it isn’t that thing can take a walk)
  • We can utilise gratitude so uncertainty (or any other negative emotion) is replaced
  • We can identify the beliefs driving the fear and whether they actually serve us.  We can always create new beliefs that work better for us.

Ultimately, personal development, goal setting, action planning and inner work will always be powerful in overcoming anxious feelings because they give us the control back.  We can’t get to where we want to go in the passenger seat of the car.  We have to take the steering wheel and drive!

Have you ever been a passenger in a car where the driver is scaring the life out of you?  That’s what is happening in your mind!  Negative thoughts and negative feelings buzzing around are like a white knuckle rollercoaster for your brain and it does what it knows best instinctively – it steers you away from pain – it alerts your nervous system that the shit is about to go down, so prepare to fight or run!  But when we take control of our thoughts and put action into place that restores order our nervous system can’t help but calm.

Breathing will support this process.  Contact me for a really simple anxiety breathing technique I learned that beats anxious feelings every time!  (Please just specify in the comments that it’s the breathing exercise you are seeking.)

Hope this helps!

Much love if you are feeling anxious.  It is an awful thing to battle, but I can help you overcome the battle for good. Click here to learn more