Recently I went live on my Facebook profile with 4 things you need to sacrifice to be happier in your life! Check it out here!
I promised to share 6 more things you have to sacrifice to get happier NOW!
And here they are…
5. Give up HUSTLING!
Believe me, you think that by working every hour you are going to get more financial freedom, but it’s likely not true. A really powerful exercise is to write a list of everything you are working hard for, which you feel you aren’t getting/don’t have already and then next to that list ask yourself honestly what you are not giving. It’s likely that most of the work that you are working hard on isn’t the world-class work that will make the shifts you seek. However, the world-class work challenges you, creates fear or puts you outside of your comfort zone.
Decide if you want the balance in your life that will bring you more happiness, which in turn will bring you more abundance and then commit to making some changes.
6. Give up BLAMING!
Take this phrase, tattoo it to your brain and say every time you find yourself looking for someone to blame about what’s going wrong in your life…
Everything is happening around me, not to me, I can control how I respond!
Then look at what you can GIVE to improve your situation.
7. Give up trying to PLEASE OTHERS
When you can trust that all your innate power is within you and be true to a life that fits you, you won’t need the approval of others. It won’t matter anymore. Not in a selfish way, but in a fulfilled way. Your happiness shouldn’t be hinged on the love, appreciation or approval of others.
8. Give up the SHOES THAT DON’T FIT
This is the first step to finding fulfilment and happiness from within you… Find out who you are in all your unique beauty.
9. Give up the need to be RIGHT
Defending a point of view is exhausting and lowers our vibe. Give up the need to be right to defend your peace of mind.
10. Give up CONTROL
There is little we can actually control in life, as I adhered to above, life is always happening around us. Feeling like we have little control over our life makes us feel really unhappy. This is just one area of a comprehensive scorecard I have to help you see what is making you feel unhappy in your life.
Access the scorecard in the first module of my free coaching course here!