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How to Change Your Life By Changing Your Focus

Not so long ago I was in a hole, anchored to past experiences that had filled me with fear and doubt and I felt out of alignment with my soul’s purpose, even though I wasn’t really sure what that was.  We were sinking financially and everything I didn’t have was my constant focus.

They say pain pushes until vision pulls you to take action towards your dreams.

One day I set the intention to change my life by changing my focus.  I went from fear and overthinking to high vibe, dreaming again, feeling good more than feeling bad, connected to my intuition and grateful for limitless abundance!

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NEWS FLASH 🖐🔔📣❗

Working on everything external to you, like your business and your relationship and your career won’t work if you don’t believe you’re capable of your own success.

Everything is created twice. Once in the mind then in reality ~ Robin Sharma

I really believe this!  As I did the inner work and got to know myself away from the fear that had trapped me for so long everything in my life  had.  My relationship and how I spent my time began to feel uncomfortable, like a shoe that had suddenly started to rub….  Things I’d previously done to escape the fear that had ruled my life became unnecessary as I was finally free of my anxiety.  I had to question a lot.  Was this something I truly loved?  Or had it  stopped serving me now I was well, strong, healthy?  What did I need to let go of to allow myself to stretch the wings I had suddenly grown?  Literally like a caterpillar that had gone into chrysalis and emerged.  How did I need to acknowledge this new freedom in my life?  What did I want?

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There is no such thing as ultimate success. And this is incredibly exciting.  Life for me is now exhilarating, as it will become for you.

We will continue to grow until the day we die, but first we must start. The day we begin to work on ourselves is the day our lives start to change.

May this be the first day of the rest of your life knowing to the base of your soul that you will ultimately become your best self living your most extraordinary life!

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I developed a Free Manifestation Challenge to take you through the 4 Keys I learned were necessary to Unlock your Inner Power to Manifest the Life you want.

Just like Robin Sharma says, manifestation is about attracting the things we want flawlessly into our reality by being clear about what we want in our mind first. However, we also have to be open to receiving the outcome of our vision and have let go of any need and the particulars.  I will teach you how to do this across 5 modules. You will become clear, open, unattached to the details and detached from any sense of need.  And all for free.

So, if you are feeling frustrated right now because life doesn’t look how you want it to in terms of your success, happiness and lifestyle, or if you have already begun manifestation and are struggling to fully manifest the big things, you may want to consider this Challenge.  Especially if you are lacking full clarity of what the life of your wildest dreams looks like or have a strong money story like I did.

The Challenge is being hosted on Teachable.com and offers you 7 days of concise, consistent actions. If life happens and you need more time, this platform also gives you the freedom to work at your own pace and undertake the steps at any time, but I recommend sticking to 7 consistent days if you can.

I will drop into your email throughout the course of the week you enrol and I invite you to join my Facebook Inspired Community where you can watch live videos expanding on the day’s content in the Challenge.

At the end of 7 days you will have:

  • Improved belief that you can have everything you see in the vision you set for yourself
  • A clear picture of that vision
  • A more positive mindset
  • Freedom from need and freedom from the detail that is blocking you from manifesting what you want

Does this sound like something that would be useful to you?  If yes, click here to begin!

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The Powerful Skill of Letting Go

The other day I posted on my Facebook page a graphic that got a lot of engagement.  It said, “Let Go of the Shit that Suffocates your Soul”.  Does that resonate?

It definitely did with me.  I have done a lot of letting go in the last year and I still have shit to let go, but I am in such a different place to where I was just a little over a year ago.

I was in constant struggle.  I’d started my own business just before my second daughter was born after losing my job out of the blue and all of my maternity leave.  At the time I thought this was a terrible thing simply because of the financial strain it would put us under, but at the same time there was a freedom in knowing I wouldn’t have to go back to work after a few months and would be able to be a mum to my new baby.  However, 2.5 years in I just could not get my business earning money.  Everything was difficult and the juggle between it and both my girls was making me feel like a failure because neither thing had my full attention.  And we were sinking financially.  At my lowest point I had to rock up with my children to the food bank and ask for some food to cover us until my husband’s pay day after the weekend.  There was nothing left, we were overdrawn, with credit cards and a stack of other growing debt.  My heart broke as I watched my girls tear into the box of cornflakes we were handed as the lady gathered other stuff for our box.  They were hungry and I hadn’t even realised it through my stress.  I felt broken.  It was at that lowest point I began my journey back to myself.

I found my calling.  Or moreover, I felt drawn back to the coaching practice I had trained in, but never had the confidence to fully launch because I didn’t know what my message was.  Now I know.  I know that every single piece of my past was part of my story and my gift to others and my greatest power in creating the future that I want.   I started to learn.  Like no other course I’d ever done.  This was the experience of life and personal development delivered by those who already had what I want and one of the best skills one of these mentors ever taught me was the “Power of Letting Go”.

Have you ever tried something that you think is the right thing to do, but it just feels hard?  Like a work a task, for example.  You’ve strategized it, it went on the crucial to do list and you tell yourself it’s important, but however hard you try you just can’t get it done?  Let it go.  The most efficient way in my business right now to get stuff done is to let the stuff go that feels like a struggle.  At first that felt like a cop out, like I was being lazy, but I forced myself to write the thing down and then move on.  I’d get my head into my personal development instead and I found through experience that the struggle was a sign from the universe that there was something I needed to learn that I hadn’t learned yet, or personal experience I didn’t have that I needed to have.  That is why my coaching had never taken off.  I hadn’t learned what I needed to; so much more than just methods and tools.

If it’s really important and the right path, whatever you write down will come back to you with inspiration to get it done with ease.  Try it!  I love it.  I get to glide over my to do list and rather than be pinned to it, be guided by my intuition and simultaneously and perpetually grow.  Growth doesn’t equal struggle.  If we want to manifest everything we want in our life, struggle and need must be eliminated and this can only happen if what we do is in alignment with our soul.  And to be sure of that we need to really know ourselves and what we want!  Our soul is us at our most pure and the universe has our back.

Are you keen to learn more about Manifestation?  Are you feeling frustrated because life doesn’t look how you want it to in terms of your success, happiness and lifestyle?  Or have you already begun manifestation, but are struggling to fully manifest the big things?  You may want to consider my 7 Day Manifestation Challenge….

Learn the 4 Keys to Unlock the Magic of Manifestation through 7 days of concise, consistent actions. If life happens and you need more time, the platform where the Challenge is hosted also gives you the freedom to work at your own pace and undertake the steps at any time, but I recommend sticking to 7 consistent days if you can.

There are daily Facebook Lives expanding on the day’s content linked in the Challenge.

At the end of 7 days you will have:

  • Refreshed belief that you can have everything you see in the vision you set for yourself
  • A clear picture of that vision
  • A more positive mindset
  • Freedom from need and freedom from the detail that is blocking you from manifesting what you want.

Join me in connecting to your soul and getting to a place where you are ready to make your life extraordinary!

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From Unsure to Unstoppable

Are you an overthinker? Is it making you hesitant, doubtful… stuck?

Do you know there is potential in you that is untapped and things in your life that you haven’t achieved yet, but there is something holding you back?

Do you want clarity on what is keeping you stuck?

I was driving back from the gym the other night randomly thinking about all the books I used to love as a kid. It was all of the adventure books – Swallows and Amazons, Borrowers, Alice in Wonderland, all the Enid Blyton books; anything that really was magical and adventurous or about faraway places.  It got me thinking about what this says about me and I guess because I have done so much self-discovery in the last year it specifically got me thinking about how I have come full circle, back to realising travel is my biggest dream, freedom is my number one value and adventuring is something I want to get back to doing.   We are at our most pure when we are children, before all those things that happen in our life define us, before we are moulded by society and the dreams of others, before school tells us what we should be and our on going roles define us.

Everything in our life creates a memory with an attached emotion an often, if the emotion is a negative one, like fear, we will hesitate and overthink to protect ourselves.  Suddenly that dream that was once so simple when we were a child now needs a plan:

  • How am I going to do it?
  • I need a plan…
  • How can I do it?
  • I don’t know how to do it…
  • I can’t do it.

Bang goes the dream. You push it to one side because you have overthought it.

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This is holding you back from living the life of your dreams. It is blocking your power to manifest abundance in your life. And if you’re honest. It’s making you feel like shit.

I know because I was there. I was holding myself back from living the life of my dreams.  I was overthinking everything, constantly anxious and not taking action, which was breeding more inaction and fear.

Now I’m making my dreams and goals come true.

What changed?

  • I got clear on the vision of what I wanted in my life
  • I started feeling OK with dreaming. At first I felt bad for even thinking about having more than I already had because I had a husband who loves me, two beautiful children and a roof over our heads. Why did I need more?  I beat myself up until I changed my focus. Then I   started to feel OK and confident to put aside all notions that my dreams were impossible
  • I started accepting that people thought I was crazy and that I was different – the business I chose to finance my dreams was not a conventional choice and it attracted criticism. I felt deep guilt as I watched other mums go back to work and I didn’t have to and for a while it felt weird that I could run a successful business in just a couple of hours a day
  • I became Positively Selfish. I believed it was OK to make space in my life to work on me and work on dreams.

All if these things were possible after I did some important work first.  Did you grab my free Success Hack Checklist?

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Not one of the above can happen before you take some first important steps.

The next steps that can follow are:

    • You can comfortably take some time out to get to know you again.  Check out this video from Facebook that talks about what can define us and take us away from our true authentic self, and we can reconnect with it

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  • Start living like your dreams have already come true. Start making decisions like you have already arrived at your goals.  This for me required saying YES.  I’d got to this place where I had stopped saying yes and was saying no to everything.  I had this big bag of excuses: not enough time, not enough confidence, not enough money.
  • Come to terms with your dream being OK – dreaming of having more than what you have already is OK
  • Do something every single day to take you closer to your dreams. I give you some ideas of how to do this in that Success Checklist.  Make sure you request it in the contact form below:

 

 

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The Day She Found Her Fierce & He Found His Heart

Once upon a time a little girl and a little boy were born; in separate homes to separate parents in separate worlds.  The boy’s mother loved her son more than she ever thought she could feel love.  The girl’s mum loved her daughter so much she thought her heart might explode into a thousand pieces.  The dads of the children held their babies tight in their arms and promised to always be there for them, always provide for them and always keep them safe.

As the little boy grew, he started to get stronger on his feet and one day he fell and grazed his knees.  His parents rushed over and said, “come now my son, big boys don’t cry.”  One day in the playground, as the baby girl became a confident child she saw the boy and his friends building sticks and she rushed over to be told, “this game is not for you little girl, go play with the other girls and their dolls.”

Slowly as the pair grew up in their separate worlds with their separate friends they each were slowly robbed of half of the self they had been born with all those years ago. The boy was robbed of living from his heart space and the girl was robbed of her ferocity, and so they followed the paths that fit the selves that were left, until one day they both realised they were unhappy.

The boy was now a man; a strong man with a good job and a loving wife and his own children.  The girl was a loving wife with her own children who she loved so hard she felt her world would cease to exist without them.  But something had happened within both of them for different reasons, which broke them apart so violently that their insides became raw and they could be honest about what they knew they had lost from within themselves.  The man felt like the words were missing to describe the feelings he felt and so he replaced the words with stuff.  The woman got real with the dreams life had taken away from her and she became so fierce in her pursuit of them that she frightened herself.

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Both the man and the woman came full circle, back to what they had always been by connecting to the inner knowing of their souls. A knowing that cannot be explained, only felt. Maybe in some ways, in this way, the woman also connected to her heart space because in being everything to everyone else she lost her compassion for herself.  In finding what both had lost they felt light, free, expanded and alive. They began to live by their intuition.  They faced walking alone as they listened to the feelings the energy of others created within them and decided feeling good was worth the sacrifice of losing all that was no longer aligned to who they were.

As the woman stood in front of her man who had loved her when she was incomplete he now felt threatened and disconnected from her fierce, authentic, feeling wholeness.  And as the man stood in front of the woman who had loved his strong responsible self-control she did not recognise the open, feeling, authentic softness that stood before her either.

Did the couple walk forward together or alone?  That part of the story has not been written yet.

 

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Why Most People Don’t Achieve Their Goals & The 2 Things That Will Guarantee Your Success

There are things that help us achieve success and things that hold us back.  My goal is to make sure you’re aware of the former and avoid the latter!

Back in my corporate life I always had the reputation of being tenacious.  My old boss used to refer to me as a dog with a bone – I would never give up, and this has served me.

Working for yourself can be a labour of love! You can come up against walls and it can be a lonely job trying to break through them.  Many people give up.  And sadly, some people don’t know how close they are to success when they do give up.  Like I mentioned in a previous blog; it took me merely months to breakthrough after years of not succeeding.  What if I had given up that day 12 months ago when it felt like enough was enough?

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So, what are the 2 things that will guarantee your success?

First, let me say, you can apply these to any goal, whether it be your business, weight loss or personal development. This is tried and tested, so grab a pen!

The first one is so simple, it will make you crazy.  Once you swallow this magic nugget of advice, things will start happening for you…

Success Tip #1 Show up consistently and with applied effort

What do I mean?

If you are trying to lose weight, grab the trainers and head out for that walk every day.  If you have a business goal to get your brand out there, put your face in front of a Facebook live every day.  If you have the goal to develop personally, pick up that book every day and read 10 pages, or listen to that webinar; whatever actions you set to work towards your goal, show up and do them consistently and with applied effort.  EASY.

So, what stops us doing this already?

Well, that’s Success Tip #2…. Accountability.

Accountability to keep showing up consistently and with applied effort is actually hard to find.  If there is no one standing over you making sure you don’t hit the snooze button, it is really hard to get out of bed and go for that run before work.  If no one is standing next to the pantry shaking a finger at you and looking disappointed as you reach for that Krispy Kreme donut it is really easy to scoff it.  And the same in your business, some days that phone weighs at least ten kilos when you have to pick it up and start cold calling all over again and sometimes it is just easier to take the day off.  However, that day off will cost you.  In contrast, if you know you’re meeting your business coach tomorrow and they are going to ask you whether you have called that list of people you promised to, you are much more likely to call them!

You catching my drift?  Accountability is the fastest way to progress.

And it’s generally where we fall down.  Especially when we work in our own business; there is no one motivating us every day.  And therein lies the power of having a coach, someone enabling your success – to set goals each week together, talk through obstacles, create strategies, think outside the box and reframe things when the going gets tough (so the tough doesn’t get going!)

Take a look at how I can help you here!  And set that intention right now to show up more consistently in action towards your goal.

With you in your success!

Clare x x